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by Android675 » Mon Sep 08, 2003 9:56 am
Dubhdanaidh,
Unfortunately, I don't have access to Kazaa, as I'm on a Mac and can't use the program. At least, I've looked for a Mac version, and can't seem to find one. Not sure about Emule, but given the usual state of affairs, I'm guessing no Mac version of that, either! If anyone knows of Mac versions of these programs, please let me know.
As for Barbarella's site, I'm not sure what series of events led to what appears to be a little misunderstanding, but I know that she got back to me very quickly once I sent in my request. Once you figure out what was causing your requests to not get through to her, I'm guessing she'll be happy to set you up.
As for the other stuff, well, don't know what to say exactly, as you covered a lot of ground, but I felt I should respond. Overall, I think you're right that many people don't post because they don't have much to say. There's certainly nothing wrong with that - when I asked for feedback in my e-mail it was meant in a positive way, to encourage those folks who have seen the clips to say a little something about them. Please keep in mind that asking for feedback is not a negative comment or criticism of those who aren't commenting. There's nothing wrong with lurking - I think we're all happy that the membership of this board has grown to 600. Even though only a small percentage of those people post, it's nice to know that there are that many people who share the fetish. If they get around to posting someday, great. If not, that's okay too.
At the same time, one of your comments is a bit of a Catch-22, and I think you hit upon a good point that could use underscoring. You said that many people don't post because they're just too busy or don't have anything to say, and then went on to point out that you've seen people who finally DID post, then stopped because they didn't get a response. So, basically, when people finally de-lurk, they're pushed back into lurker mode by the lack of response from other lurkers. I think that's irony. If nothing else, it's certainly a shame. Perhaps, when people do finally de-lurk on this board, we could all try to post at least a "welcome" comment to make them feel more comfortable. I'm as guilty of this as anyone else, and I'll make an effort to do that in the future.
Also, to anyone who does de-lurk, keep in mind that responses are often very slow in coming, if they come at all, for everyone on this board. Even long time contributors sometimes get almost no response at all. So, even if you don't get a flood of responses right from the start, please don't let that stop you from posting. Every additional person who comes out of lurk mode helps the board, and continued de-lurking will, hopefully, help solve the lack of response problem in the future.
As for the star that burns bright, it does seem that some people have blown in here and posted like crazy, only to disappear shortly thereafter. I suppose that'll happen on any board. But, at the same time, there are many, many regular long-time contributors who go in cycles - lots of posts sometimes and not many at others. Like you said, "real" life takes precedence, and we all make time for this strange quirk when we can. I think we have a strong core of long-time members and contributors who aren't going anywhere - many of them have been into the ASFR community since the very beginning - and it's always gratifying to see their posts and efforts to improve the ASFR community.
And, I can't speak for the moderators of the board, but I don't think you have to worry about getting banned. Nothing wrong with putting forth your opinion - that's exactly what we're trying to encourage!
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